A grateful daughter has praised the “comfort, warmth and support” which our Butterfly volunteers gave her family during her much-loved dad’s final days at Colchester Hospital.

Claire Walker first met the volunteers in February when they came to see her father Maurice Page (84), who was receiving end of life care.

From that point onwards, the team visited several times, offering Maurice’s family respite from his bedside safe in the knowledge that he would not be alone. They were also able to give practical help to Claire and her mum Jeannie, which included arranging free car parking.

“The volunteers were absolutely lovely,” said Claire. “Mum is 82 and couldn’t be at Dad’s bedside all the time, so found it a real comfort to know someone would be with him when we needed time away. They also made it easier for us to get some respite by going for a coffee or some fresh air.

“The volunteers asked all about Dad and his hobbies and interests, which meant a lot to us as they showed a real interest in him as a person. They also introduced us to the Blanketeers, who made Dad a beautiful knitted blanket, which Mum now cherishes. We were so touched by their generous gift that we asked for donations for them in Dad’s memory at his funeral.

“On the day Dad died the curtains were pulled round the bed while we said our final goodbyes. We then found that the volunteers had left a purple butterfly on the floor to signify what had happened. We loved that – we thought it was such a nice touch. 

“The volunteers gave our family such huge warmth which we will always treasure”

 

“The volunteers gave our family huge warmth which we will always treasure. They supported us as well as my Dad, which was incredibly valuable to us. We would encourage people to support the charity appeal if they can as it would be lovely to know that others could be helped in that way too.

“My Dad was my hero, especially when I was a little girl. He was a real presence and so reliable – I often thought of him as a still point in a turning world. He also had an incredibly strong faith and was utterly sure of where he was going. We found that a huge help and comfort when he passed away.”

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